dating with a man with 2 kids dovolno dolgoe vremya, no deti vosprinimayut, kak dryga papi, no ne kak potential step mom, kak sebya vesti? dolzhen li papa skazat detyam, chto ya eto ne prosto friend.

It is not your business when he is going to tell them or IF he is going to tell them, as it is not your children and such information has to come from him. So far be nice and friendly, and don't try to show it or make it look like you are part of their family, you are not till he said so.

Kids are living with him, how long do I need to wait till Daddy figures what to do

How long? Depends. Maybe you are pushing too hard or he wants to consider other options...

6 years

Женщина, 6 лет? Вы,вообще,сами, чего хотите? Просто хорошо проводить время или семью? Если просто проводить время, так забейте на детей итд. Если хотите семью,вопрос ребром поставьте, что дальше?

I know this dad he still leaving with his wife and with ypu he just dating , lol